Okay, I'll admit it (Ted, just admit it) immediately that this is an update for the sake of updating. Because I said I would. Because I got up on six hours of sleep, when I needed a lot more, ran a bunch of errands, drove to Carmel or somewhere in New York, spent all day with a chunk of Raf's family, drove back, wandered around New Haven for an hour, caught the end of the Dave Brubeck Quartet on the green, determined that I love New Haven, bought an eight dollar toe ring, and now I'm shot. But I didn't want the day to go unmarked.
Raf and I are going to try and see if we can deal with living together - which isn't inherently a whole lot different than how things are going now, only we're going to go from him sharing mine to ours. This is the first time I have let a relationship progress along a natural course, we've been dating for nine months, friends for a few months longer, and we're in love. So, it's sort of the next logical thing - but it's nice to say all that out loud, because I've never done it like this before.
Hi. I'm growing up.
xxxooo
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