validation

for the you should commenter - can't you see me? I'm right here:

and here:

oh, and here too:

I'll be back later today to talk about my morning. (go ahead, sing it) because I've had these revelations... they just snuck up on me. it was like talking with kristin about relief, and crying with relief, and how great of an exhale it is that you can't plan for or don't always know you need.

or something like that.